ANNIE HIGHWATER’S MISSION
There are more people affected by addiction than addicted. My mission is to promote healthy dialogue and to offer support, information and hope to the stressed out, affected family, partners and friends (the “entourage”) of those in the grips of addiction, alcoholism and SUD.
I believe no one should have to go through it alone.
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Holy Split!! Splitting and Splitters
The Unhooked Podcast! Splitters and Splitting In this week's episode we take a look at Splitting behavior as it occurs with those who have Borderline Personality Disorder, High Conflict Personality Disorder as well as people struggling with chemical dependencies. Many people are affected by splitting behaviors without realizing that's what they're dealing with. Pulling information from a work class, years in the rooms of recovery and my own personal life and family...I hope this will be eye opening as well as encouraging information for how to handle and respond when you find yourself the villain in the story or in the cross hairs of someone operating with splitting. Listen in to check it out! (Email: Annieunhooked@gmail.com)
Listen to the episodeOctober 21, 2026 · The Unhooked Podcast by Annie Highwater
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Holy Split! Identifying Splitting and "Splitters"
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Unhooked
PUBLISHED 2016 · BOOK
Unhooked: A Mother's Story of Unhitching from the Roller Coaster of Addiction
By Annie Highwater
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Unbroken
PUBLISHED 2018 · BOOK
Unbroken, Navigating the Madness of Family Dysfunction, Alcoholism and Addiction
By Annie Highwater
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October 14, 2026
Mind Harassment
The Unhooked Podcast by Annie Highwater "When my mind is my Bully" There are times when thoughts of fear, embarrassment, dread...self-loathing etc., keep me up at night. Or...WAKE me up at night. Or...paralyze me when the alarm goes off in the morning and getting up to face the day is a battle. It happens. No one is immune. I'm better at navigating it, but it does happen. When it does, I have to dig deep into the reserves to find my way forward. Listen in to this week's episodes to hear those experiences along with tools and tips from the paths of recovery. Check it out!! (Edited by: 2CFilmCo)
Listen to the episodeOctober 7, 2026
Choose Your Momma
For much of my life, I carried what I now understand as a Mother wound. As the youngest of six, I longed for the kind of Mother I saw other children have. I remember looking at Moms on elementary-school field trips and feeling something deeper and more wholesome than jealousy or anger. It was a painful longing. A quiet, aching wish for someone who felt safe, steady, nurturing, truthful, and strong. That wound followed me into adulthood and affected how I saw myself, my relationships, and even my years as a young Mother myself. But recently, while riding my bike, a question occurred to me: If I could choose any Mom in the world for myself, who would I choose? Listen in for experience, strength and hope from the rooms of recovery and my own journey out of dysfunction and misery. Doing our inner recovery work...works. Listen in here or wherever you download your podcasts. Check it out! (Edited by 2C Film Co)
Listen to the episodeSeptember 30, 2026
Chaos has a Pattern
The Unhooked Podcast! “Chaos has a Pattern: Navigating the Madness of it” For me this is familiar territory—especially theidea that chaos can feel random while actually following recognizable patterns. I learned this from a recovery specialist…I called her and these were her words that calmed me… "What's happening isn't random, chaos has a pattern." There is, however, distinction between chaos we create, chaos we inherit, and chaos that simply happens Whatever the case it’s worth asking: How doI become steady when my circumstances aren’t? The goal isn’t to eliminate chaos. It’s learning to recognize it, not to feed it, and to develop enough internal stability that you don’t have to participate in every storm around you. Listen in for tools and tips in this week's Unhooked episode. Check it out!
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September 23, 2026
HSP Highly Sensitive Persons
The Unhooked podcast! If you have ever been told you are, "Too sensitive," this episode is for you. Being highly sensitive isn't about being emotional. It's about having an acute awareness, a strong sense of intuition, a sharp eye for detail and catching behavior patterns quick, many times before anyone else. This can lead to others dismissing your thoughts, invalidating what you are sensing, and sometimes becoming aggravated and even angry with you over it. It doesn't have to be pain point or a reason to shrink back or feel condemned over what you know you are catching onto. Being highly sensitive (hyper aware) is actually a protection and even a power tool when cultivated and used with wisdom. I share a few situations in my own life when I felt the scorch of disagreement from others when I knew what I knew was a true and real thing. I (Note: t's smart to realize we can always get something wrong, it's good to observe versus hurrying to speak to a thing, I have been stung a time or two making that mistake. You live and learn!) Listen in to this week's episode for experiences as well as tools and tips when it comes to navigating your own experiences with hyper sensitivity, discernment and awareness. Check it out!
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